Why always Me?!

Why it always happens to me? Why? uhhh...

A line that almost every young Indian or every youth says.

But there is a reason for all. There is! Always! For us being in this world and for us saying that.

Let's talk about saying..

^You decided to watch TV after week. You turned it on and start watching your favourite show and dish goes off

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Why it always happens to me?

^You build a short goal for yourself, started working on it and ends up in a day with a zero..Then regrets and says
Why always me?

Most of the time it happens to us because we do not develop a strong belief or feel for doing any work. Every such youth does things half heartedly because they are not sure about things they do. They cannot decide whether to watch TV or Youtube. They cannot decide whether to listen parents advice or one's own will. They just cannot decide. That's the problem

Turn around your head and see your circle. Notice who is successful and who is not. The one who is whole heartedly committed to one thing or the one who wants to do something , having a thought of doing something else also but it is actually doing something very different.  Surely second will be in the middle of a pit pondering what went wrong and the first one will be on the apex.

So the moral is think before you make decisions , watching pros and cons , difficulties and your abilities . And then never diter from your words and decision and...

And the sentence I began with, will never ever will be on your lips . And still if it comes to your head and then think what went wrong . Even the slightest mistake could be the reason.

Thank You!

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